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- Answer from Lisa4Jesus
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Unfortunately, only God knows the answer to this question. It is definately NOT His will that divorce happen for any reason. However, He does give each of us the free will to make our own choices, regardless of whether they are right or wrong. My advise to you is to pray for God to touch her heart in such a way as to allow a restoration of your marriage and for you to stay very close to Him in the meantime; and, make sure you continually walk in His ways, doing what you know in your heart is right in God's eyes. If she has filed for divorce, hurt has been done somewhere and you need to pray for God to heal her heart and guide you on what you can do to help the healing process for both of you. The only way for you to do this is through God's guidance in your life. If you ask Him, He will guide you in what you need to do and He will touch her heart also.
I can tell you that with God, ALL things are possible! I know this because my husband and I were divorced 18 years ago too. But we stayed very good friends throughout all those years, supported each other through bad times and at different points throughout all that time, we had both prayed for restoration of our marriage. It seemed impossible but today, we are back together again and happy. It was "only" because of God's blessings and complete forgiveness on both our parts that we are together today though.
If it was possible for us, it is possible for you and your wife too. But it will only happen through kindness, love, forgiveness and most of all, prayer. I will be praying for you both and for God to restore your marriage and bring you both back together closer than you ever were. I will also pray for God to guide you and for you to stay very close to Him as you will need both His guidance and His comfort at this point in your life.
I don't know what the situation was behind the break-up but I can tell you that a very big part of my husband I and finally getting back together was that he never stopped loving and supporting me even when I was so angry at him. The fact that we stayed very close friends even after the divorce also had alot to do with it. Neither one of us really wanted the divorce but we were both too young and stubborn at the time to know what to do to keep our marriage together. We both know that now looking back though. I "can" tell you that it was his love and continual support no matter what I did, that finally brought me around to forgiving him though. Once I forgave him, that's when I too started praying for a restoration of our marriage. I don't really know why I'm telling you this but I have the feeling that it just might help you with your situation.
I hope this helped a little. You will both be in my prayers and I will pray that God restores your marriage, touches her heart, and brings His healing into this entire situation. May God Bless you both abundantly, make His face to shine upon you and give you both healing and peace.
Your Sister In Christ,
Lisa B
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Lisa4Jesus