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My Ex-boyfriend as of today. . .

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I left my boyfriend today because I refuse to put up with the nonsense. . .However, I am confused about the entire relationship. . .Should I wait or pursue with this relationship? I have had dreams in the past that stated we were meant to be together and I have used Doreen Virtue's Saints & Angel cards and pulled th marriage card for us. . .But I am so confused. He hasn't been coming home for over 2 months, he is so mean to me at times (verbally abusive), gambles instead of spending time with me, and is no longer affectionate. He refuses to drive 1 hour home and instead gets hotel rooms . . .I can not tell if he is cheating or having lots of turmoil in in his life. I am so lost and do not know what to think anymore. I need some guidance and advice from the angelic realm as to weather I should continue with this relationship and be patient or let it go for good? I do truly love him,but I refuse to be mistreated by anyone. . . I am desperate for some real help. . .Thanks for all your help ;-)

Asked 296 days ago

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Answer from Jacqueline

You have probably made your decision by now,and what ever it was I can imagine it couldn't have been easy. What I would say, is you never really know what the future holds, if you have left him already, you may find it is the turning point in his life, and yet again, it may not be.If you are truly meant to be together, it can happen, events will occur to bring you together in a harmonious way, when the time is right.
Only you truly know what you need to do, if you take time out to be quiet, and allow your heart and head to connect, you will know what is right for you. What ever you decide, you have the strength inside, you just have to learn to access it. Take care - Jacqueline

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Answered 244 days ago by Jacqueline

Answer from RishiOm

Be realistic about him. He has abused you and now he has been away for two months. which is furthering the abuse.
Emotionally, this man has not grown up and you have made the right decision to move on. If you feel that he is the one, then, you must try to communicate with him, but, if he fails to co-operate with you, then, it is time for you to re-assess your priorities and move on for good. There will be many more opportunities for you once your heart is cleared of this situation.
Take care of yourself and know that you are loved by beings in a much higher plane and if you call on them in your quiet moments listen to what they tell you. Have faith in yourself and know that you are a very special human being and that your spiritual self is here to learn many of the lessons for your ever
evolving soul..

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Answered 228 days ago by RishiOm


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